Things to get off my chest.

Love?

What is love?
What's its purpose?
Is it there to make you feel whole?
Or is it there to break you?
To toughen you up.
To teach you.
Love can come in many forms.
Whether it's your dog that just learned a new trick.
Whether it's a friend who gives you food after a long day.
Or if it's a partner.
Almost everything is made from love

But from what I've learned about this world is that everything has a negative. Even if it's 99% positive, there's always that 1%.
So what's negative about love?
Well you can lose things from it
You can lose
-hope
-money
-positivity
-determination
-happiness
-And much MUCH more.
If love didn't have any negatives what would we learn?
It taught me that you can't just love because it's human nature.
You love because it's YOUR choice.
That's what YOU wanted.
Was to love
And it's ok not to love
A lot of people feel that way.
What's not okay is to judge people by it.
"She's just using you"
"He doesn't love you"
"Why do you love him?"
"Why care?"
Let people make their choices and learn the consequences.
If they get heartbroken it's THEIR fault.
It's not your responsibility
It's THEIRS
And it's ok to help them with it.
It's ok to be there
But not all the time.
Some people depend on love a little too much some times.
Only wanting to be with who they love.
Never doing anything else.
It's tough.
But at least your learning.
The best thing to do in life is to learn.
Not to love.
Loving is pretty great and all.
But it's not as amazing as learning.

So, before you fall your the really cute guy or the hot girl, remember that your deciding that. It's YOUR choice. Think about why you choose them.
And if you get them. Cool!
If you don't. That's ok
At least your learning.