Thanks for checking in, im still a piece of garbage

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Dear Diary,

If I were to choose a negative trait that describes me it's insensitive. It's not that I try to be that way it's just the way I am. Especially in friendships and handling problems. For an example my friend would be telling me about a problem she has and I listen. I have this thing where I must look at all point of views before making a conclusion. After my friend tells me her issue I end up giving defenses to the other side wanting to think of the other side of the story in the situation. I want to figure out what is wrong and who was right. In the middle of the situation I end up forgetting the most important factor. The emotion. I end up getting too caught up in who is wrong and who is right I forget about how my friend is feeling about the situation. I feel like such a shitty friend. In the end I probably seem like I don't care about them. This is something I do want to improve on, but I don't even know how. I'm probably a really trashy friend... anyone has advice?

Sincerely, Trash

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