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....Out there....

I feel delighted in saying that, yes you should put your self out there.

I'm not saying that you should wear the skippiest of clothes and walking around and say 'hey I'm girlfriend material.'

I'm simply saying put your self on the market. Let him know that your available and that you are willing to commit. And this goes for all boys as well.

Some guys, just want to be shown the light and they will follow trust me.

But take a delicate approach.

Be available but not too available. Because this guy would like to know that he is not the only guy chasing after you. Men hate competitions.

Especially in competing for girls,because of there huge ego. Am I right?

Be smart. If he is not your type. Then he is plain and simple not your time.

Don't take this from me... But I date for fun, I have dated many guys that are not my type and in the long run in ends in less than a month.

Well this is obviously because I didn't reciprocate there feelings. So I recommend you select your type.

Lastly, some guys like entertainment . So entertain them. Some guys like the chase or the temptation.

For most women, being eighteen and older of course, head to the gym or the bar where they know a lot of sexy men hang out. This approach works, woke it doesn't. It can lead to a one night stand and also it can lead to love.

You can also seek to social media. Do not, I repeat do not post your relationship status on social media. This can cause sexual predicting especially for females. It can attract the wrong crowd. Also some guys or most guys will view a girls social media and if you by any chance catch their eye, they would talk to you.

I found my first love through this. And it was quite a experience.

LESSON LEARNT: puting yourself out there does not nessarily mean, being a slut. Instead try the gentle approach, be you... Don't change for a soul. If you have to become popular to be with a popular guy then that is obviously isn't gonna work.

If you have any questions. Ask away.

I know it's a little jumbled ,this is because I haven't edited it as yet.

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Thanks for reading.

Yours truly,
Pueeny.

brenae101 and @allyssah14 how is it?




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