Soulmates

17 - Real Score

May isang netizen ang nag post ng mga larawan nina Rhian at Bianca sa Facebook. She captioned her post as "Ang sweet nila, Grabe!!!"

The caption is catchy. It was a caption that unintentionally caught the interest of other netizens. No bad intention. But it did become interesting because it was shady; because the caption implies that something is going on between these two gorgeous ladies. In fact, as of this writing, umabot na sa 10.8k likes, 8.0k comments at 15.2k shares ang post. And it happened in just three days!

I checked the comments. Nalilito ang karamihan. Nagtatanong ng, "sila ba?". Marami ring naniniwala. And it looked like it was being supported by netizens specially those in LGBTQI+ community. Fine. Sabi nila, lovewins! At least walang prejudism sa comments. Walang judgment. And that was one positive side that I can see in that post.

Pero bilang RaStro supporters, individually man o magkasama, tayo dapat ang nakakaalam kung ano ang totoo. Dapat, kilala natin sila sa mas malalim na pagkatao. Hindi kasi tayo observer lang. We follow them on a day-to-day basis. Kaya nga hindi tayo dapat nagpapadala sa larawan. We must also know how to read between the lines. Otherwise, pati tayo pwedeng ma-mislead.

Before we jump into conclusion, lets's dig a little bit deeper about Bianca King. Sino ba talaga siya sa buhay ni Rhian?

BIANCA KING

Bianca was born in Germany in 1985. Ibig sabihin, more than 5 years ang age gap nila ni Rhian.

Kauna-unahang naging boyfriend ni Bianca sa showbiz si Patrick Garcia. Nagkakilala ang dalawa dahil sa best friend nito na si Cheska Garcia. Umabot din ng mahigit isang taon ang relasyon nila.

(Note that Patrick was also rumored to be dating Glaiza in late 2008).

Bianca had also a relationship with Hale Band vocalist Champ Liu-Pio for 2 years from 2007 to 2009; and with Dennis Trillo from 2011 to 2012.

According to some news portal, Bianca deeply in love to Julio Villafuerte, the son of former Camarines Sur governor. Nagsimula ang relasyon nila noong April 2013 at natapos noong July 2015. Sang-ayon sa PEP, ito raw ang pinakamasakit na break-up ni Bianca dahil sa sobrang pagmamahal nito kay Julio. Kaya nga noong balikan siya nito noong January 2016 ay binigyan niya ito ng second chance. But it lasted only for a few months because of conflict of schedule.

Bianca is a friendly person. Mahilig siyang mag-ampon sa kanyang condominium. Her friends include Carla Humpries, Samby Rodriguez, Beauty Gonzales, Mari Jasmine and of course, Rhian.

Mapapansin na sa uri ng mga kaibigan ni Bianca ay hindi siya mapanghusga. She is being surrounded by friends from different walks of society. Tinatanggap niya ang mga kaibigan, regardless of the past and regardless of sexual preferences.

RHIAN RAMOS

Naging magkarelasyon sina Rhian at KC Montero mula March 2012 hanggang November 2013. Nanatili ang kanilang pagiging magkaibigan pagkatapos ng break-up. Noong December 30, 2014 ay muling nakipagrelasyon si Rhian sa katauhan ni Jason Choachuy. Tumagal ito hanggang July 2018.

If you will look at it a little bit deeper, Rhian has already surpassed the so called "play girl" stage since she had a relationship with KC. She had been with KC for one year and eight months. She had been single for more than a year before she went into another relationship. She was with Jason for more than three years.

Kaya nga kapag may nababasa akong mga judgment tungkol kay Rhian, hindi ko matiis na hindi ipagtanggol. She's been judged because of her past. She's been judged unreasonably na parang kilalang kilala siya. She had been rumored by her own "fans" na kung kani-kanino pumapatol. Minsan nga, mismong mga "fans" pa niya ang nagbibigay ng malisya sa mga ikinikilos niya. At minsan ang sweetness ni Rhian sa iba ay laging binibigyan ng kahulugan. Why? Because Rhian has a bad reputation? Unfair!