HOW TO ESCAPE FRIENDZONE

INTERESTING PERSON

Most of girls and boys love intellectual games. Like, Solving puzzle, board games, and other stuff like that. Also in some mobile games they like mystery or solving crimes.

That's why..some of us like mysterious person or interesting person.

Be an interesting person, some girls like challenges. If they will know if they feel like your easy to read your moves or intentions.

Yung mga pa hard to get. Kahit lalake ginagawa yon. And siyempre mga girls, pag type talaga niya gusto niya itong makilala ng lubusan. Kumbaga they set it as a challenge.

Have you ever heard that women really like guys who are mysterious?

Well, gusto nila yung mga lalakeng mysterious not creepy, or lonely sort of way but they meant was a guy na attracting pero hindi mo siya mabasa. No emotions or serious type of guy.

Example:
Yung mga napapanood niyo sa kdrama or anime. Kadalasan mga bida. May hawak na libro, nakasalamin tapos poker face yung itsura. Parang rukawa lang sa Slamdunk din ang peg. Kaya maraming girls ang gusto siyang makilala kase di siya open as a person.
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LOVE MOVES IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS

Akala niyo pag-ibig lang at theme pwedeng maging misteryoso pwede rin ang mga boys at girls.

Being mysterious also means that he doesn't tell a woman absolutely everything about himself in the hope of impressing her. Instead, he lives an interesting life, has interesting opinions, but doesn't feel the need to tell her everything.

Serious type of person ay may sariling pananaw. If you wanna look like them. You have to be private, not secret.

Instead, he knows that he is impressive "as is" and doesn't need to put on a big show to hopefully get a woman to like him. He knows that women want to be with him and he only opens up and shares everything with a woman that earns his love, trust and respect over time.

Being mysterious makes a girl sees interest in you. Make them more wanna know more about you. Be a hard to get sometimes.

I ask 10 random girls in social media if they like "Mysterious Person" and 8/10 them like that.

Some says "gusto ko siyang makilala kase interesting siyang tao"

"Nakakachallenge yung guy na ganon lalo na kung medyo shy type. Nakaka-astig tignan"

Ayan so Guys! If si bes! Or si crush di malabong gusto nila ganyan.. I'm sure there's a possibility na maging interesado sayo si crush o si bes.

What if?

▶Eh kilala na niya ako?-
If kilala ka na ni girl dapat mag-isip ka or gumawa ka ng bagay na talagang kakainteresahan niya.
Like, do some things na hindi mo ginagawa pero they usually do.

Ex. You're now reading novels, bigla kang nagkakainterest sa mga deep web, bigla kang nagsusulat ng kanta, minsan bigla kang nagsusulat ng baybayin, spoken poetry.. unusual sayo pero sa girl normal lang pero intereting.. getching mo na?

▶What if hindi niya mapansin- Alam mo. If the person knows you so well. Mapapansin niya yung pagbabago mo. You suddenly working out, you're doing stuffs na hindi ka naman interesado before pero ginagawa mo na. He/she will notice you.

Pag interesante kang tao, people will notice you. Si crush makikita yung pagbabago mo, si bes makikita yung ginagawa mo. Nakakadagdag pogi points kapag interesado kang tao.
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GIRLS WAY

About girls. Be unreadable. Most of our interactions with other people are non-verbal. We have dozens of "tells" going on at any one time indicating to others how we feel at that exact moment. Be aware of this and consciously take advantage of the patterns people are relying on. You know how James Bond gets all serious when he's telling a joke? Kind of like that. When he's hitting on a woman he's stoic, too. And that's one mysterious guy.

Si bes magtataka, iba na kinikilos mo, iba ka na makitungo, "hindi naman niya matanong kung in-love ba ikaw sakanya, baka may period lang or baka may problema lang. Baka kase pag tinanong ko kung in-love ba to saken baka sabihin assuming ako"

Hindi ka mabasa ni bes. At ayon magkakainterest na siya lalo sayo..

HARD-TO-GET
Siyempre kailangan mo siyang mind games. Mapapaisip si bes kung ano meron sayo and bigla kang nagiging weird. Bigla kang nagiging cold. Bigla kang nag iiba. This is how you do it..

Scenario...

*Think about your body positioning when you're interacting with a person. Experiment with changing it around and seeing how the other person reacts. Play with your tone of voice. Your eye contact. Leave them wondering how the heck you were feeling. (Tapos bigla kang nag-eexorcist. Keme lang)

*Some girls do this when someone courting her. It is a test of patience to the person. When you do this, you will know if he's seriously into you. But to your situation, Being a Hard-to-get person means you are not easily pursue or please you. Dito mo na malalaman kung interesado na si bes lalo sayo. (Kinukulit ka para lang mapaamin ka, pero dapat wag kang marupok bes. Labanan mo para successful. Sayang ang pagbabasa mo dito kung dito palang olats kana.)

*You can't easily be accessible if he calls you, don't answer all the time, and wait a day or two before calling back. A good rule of thumb is to wait about twice as long as they do before calling back. (Ayan kung dati lagi ka niyang takbuhan, ngayon dapat minimize na lahat. Mula sa pagkikita, paguusap, pagtetext, bonding at kung ano pang kaechosan niyo)

pag naging effective to. Congrats. You can now proceed to the next challenge..