HOW TO ESCAPE FRIENDZONE

DONT TREAT HIM/HER AS A FRIEND

"Treating as a friend or as a jowa or suitor"

This is why many guy are ended being friends to his love because your placing yourself as a friend. As I mention in chapter 3 your validating yourself as a Boyfriend material not a bestfriend.

Sa mga kinikilos natin she dont know if you are just being friendly or you act like a suitor. Lagi mong tatandaan na magkaiba yon. Lalo na sa mga babae. Pag ang babae nag act ka ng kindness, sweet, caring, or being gentleman binibigdeal nila yon. Nag jujump into a conclusion na baka may gusto ka sakanya. Kaya dapat you should act like one! Not just act but iparamdam mo na totoo at sincere yung pagiging gentleman mo sakanya.

So that's why you have to be nice to her, flirt her, be sweet to her, be a gentleman. So that she will think that you're not just a friend to her.
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And also don't let her labelling your relationship as a friend. In some gathering or if some of your friends sees you together, let her speak what relationship you have.

Hayaan mo siya magtanong o magfigure out kung ano meron sainyo? Na why so suddenly you're being sweet. Pag sinabi mo kase na nanliligaw ka ng hindi niya alam eh maguguluhan siya or maooffend. "Remember friends palang kayo." Let her know what's happening on you.

CONFESS IF IT IS NECESSARY

Don't let your effort ends up being useless. And if she ask you if what happening are you on, just say that you like her and be honest what you feel about her.

"BOGS, MAHAL KITA. MAHAL NA MAHAL KITA"
mala Kim chiu lang ang peg diba? Aminin na pag pwede na. Wag mong lituhin si bes. Hindi rin siya si Madam Auring para manghula kung ano nararamdaman mo sakanya. Let your Heart speak.

DONT PRESSURE HER

Pag naamin mo na sakanya. Hayaan mo muna siyang makapag-isip.

Mas maganda yung pinagiisipan muna ng mabuti mamsh. Hindi lahat ng bagay minamadali. Although nasanay na tayo lahat ay instant pero dapat hindi sa LOVE.

"Ang tunay na pagmamahal, hinihintay kahit gaano katagal."

-Eddgy(2018)

naks! P.S mo yan tapos post mo sa Twitter.

Avoid pressuring her into being more than a friend. Although it might seem like a good idea to constantly gush about what a good couple you two would make, if she isn't ready for a relationship, she's going to feel pressured and pestered. You want her to come to the realization that you'd make an awesome boyfriend, but she needs to come to that realization on her own.
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Sa mga babae, Madalas kase lalake ang nagcoconfess. Bibihira lang kilala kong umaamin na babae. But there's nothing wrong with that.

"Nagmahal lang naman ako"

Pak! Linyahan ng mga marupok!

Wag ka mahiyang umamin. But after non tama na muna. Hintayin mo muna siyang sumagot at magdecide. Maging maria clara ka. Wag kang maghabol sakanya.

Mind blown yan after..

BOY POV. "Ah kaya pala naging ganito siya kase may gusto pala siya saken... kahit matagal na kaming magkaibigan di niya sinasabi na magkaibigan kame"

Ganyan maiisip niyan. Advance ako magisip eh.

Kaya pag nasabi mo na enough na muna kase i know some boys will take this for granted para paasahin ka.

Oops di lahat!

But take note girls.

Malalaman mong sincere yung lalake sayo kapag may patience, faithful at gentleman. Come on. Wag puro looks! Tingin ka sa character ng tao.

And lastly.. wag mo rin lagyan ng pressure si boy. Give him time to think.

"Wag mag madali, baka kayo ay magkamali at magsisi sa huli"

Kahit filipino time tayo. There is always a perfect timing in everything.