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Daughter In Law

Assalamu alaikum,
Dear brothers and sisters,
I am again writing this post about daughter in law.

Most of the people don't want a wife or daughter in law. They just want a maid to takecare of their household. To cook for them and be a toy to get abused.

In my own relatives I had seen women getting abused by her in laws and husband. For husband they are just a body and a machine to give birth. And for in laws she is a robot to work.

If she utters a word of protest she gets beaten up by them. She can't even go back to her parents because she don't want to trouble them. Allah had created a woman from man's rib and that too from the most crooked part. If you hurt her she will break into pieces. All a girl need is love and respect.

She can and she will do anything for you if you will treat her right. And now a days a new trend in going on in the name of nikkah halala. I am so sick by the news coming up everyday. Allah had made nikkah halala so people can fear divorcing their wives. But here they had made it such a sinister thing. Specially in India.

The news of husband divorcing their wives and making them sleep with his friends or male family members in the name of nikkah halala. Allahu akbar.

You are even taking Allah's word in your dirty games.? Don't you have fear of Allah.? Don't you know you have to face Allah on judgement day. This makes me cry. Literally my eyes welled up even thinking about those woman who had gone through it.

Allah says that your wives are your garment and you are a garment for them. Do you understand the depth of those beautiful verse.?

You should protect your wives from evil. You should take care of her. You should protect her chastity. And here you are sharing your wives with others for fun. Astagfirullah. Can you imagine someone doing exactly the same thing with your daughter or sister.? Trust me you will kill that guy.

And for in laws I want to say the same thing. Can you imagine your daughters suffering from the same things you are doing with your daughter in law.? Can you.? No you can't. No one wish a bad omen on their daughters or sisters. So please don't be the one for someone's daughter.

Allah is just. If someone do wrong leave it on Allah. Bear patience. But not to the extent that it become haram on you to bear all those things.

May Allah grant us understanding, sabr and love. Ameen