Make Wise Decisions.

Storytime

This story starts out on a day I honestly can't remember because of how traumatizing it was lmao. Looking back now I'm finding out it was May 17, 2018.

I had been doing homework and skyping my boyfriend, which was a usual occurrence when I got a message from my ex-boyfriend on snap chat. He was pretty weird, and we had a bad history due to me mostly. He would always be the one contacting me and looking back at it now I should have blocked him.

We started talking until he asked me if I would fuck him or something. Obviously, I was saying hell to the no I have a boyfriend, but he didn't care at all. He kept pestering me about it, and I should have blocked him but me being an idiot asked him "If I say yes will you leave me alone?"

He agreed, and I said yes because I 1. Thought that would be the end of it, and 2. Knew for a fact he lived nowhere near me, so he wasn't just going to fly on a plane, not even knowing where I lived, to come be true to his word. 

As soon as I said this he was like "Oh great! Get on skype we're going to fuck!", and I was thinking what the actual fuck I think not. When I told him this he said oh nonononono I don't think so and proceeded to blackmail me with my nudes. He told me if I didn't do this he would send my nudes to everyone I knew, and at that point, I was freaking the fuck out. 

When we were together he had brainwashed me into showing him shit over skype, and who knows what he could have screenshotted. That was all that was going through my head. At this point, I was still skyping my boyfriend and I was telling him about the situation. He definitely helped by telling my dumb ass self to ask the dude for proof that he had my nudes. I asked my ex and he went on to tell me some bs excuse that his camera was broken and he couldn't send them. 

This didn't calm my nerves at all because I knew for a fact he could have taken a screenshot of my body, and you could most likely see my face in it. He scared me into this so much that I skyped him. He was telling me I had to do this, and I was just there sobbing, for an extremely long time. I literally showed myself crying but this asshole had no emotion and told me to take off my clothes. 

This went on for a while (Me just crying in front of the camera) until I decided that I was done with this shit and that if he wanted to ruin my life then so be it. Since I wouldn't do it he told me he would send the nudes to my parents, sister, my whole family, pretty much everyone I knew. I was so scared that I believed him, but I was done. 

I left my phone alone for a while to clear my head, hoping it would be over soon, and thankfully it was. When I came back to my phone a good 30 minutes later nothing had happened, thank god.

 I then blocked him everywhere I could, and it seemed to be successful. When he realized I blocked him on snap chat though, he made another account to be a creep and started spouting bs like "Oh you think you can escape me? I have 1000 more accounts and all the time in the world". I blocked that snapchat account though and that was the end of it. 

My nudes were never sent to anyone that I know of, and I still to this day don't know if he actually had them or not. It seems obvious that if none were ever sent, he probably didn't have them but I'm honestly still too scared to accept that.

Now the surface level moral of the story is to not be a dumb bitch like me and send nudes or get undressed on camera. Deeper moral of the story though?  Be more cautious about what you do, and please please please think before you act!