Question:
"What do you think is the common problem on why girls, maybe specifically black girls, have issues with men, especially those who do them bad?"
Answer:
lack of clarity with communication, unspoken expectations, & overestimated intentions.
i say these because with communication people fail to respond in a way to get the results they want, like you want to fix a situation to get peace but are yelling and being petty. You won't get the results you want if you don't give the results you want.
That leads me into unspoken expectations, on both sides we tend to expect them to do something that we have not told them we wanted. Yes, it would be nice if they picked up on subliminal message, body language, and daily habits but when a person has a life of their own it's unfair to expect them to operate fully in yours as well. So saying what you expect clears any doubt.
And that leads me into my final conclusion of overestimated intentions, we tend to tap into our hopeless romantic side and are biased judgement of "oh i really like them" which clouds are realm of reality. So then we have this image of what we want them to be in our head which may not be who they actually are. overestimated intentions means in my head i see this, but in reality you are not that!
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