Finally being over that one person is like coming up from air when you're drowning. Weight is lifted off your shoulders. The panic is gone. The moment is bliss. Subtly perfect. You can breathe. And as you take in that breath of air you are taking yourself back. No more tears. No more emotional strain. No more hurt. You're healing. And during this time, you are focusing on yourself. Something most of us haven't done in forever. And when you are finally over them, take advantage. Go out with your friends. Self care. Just relax. And maybe being over them means you won't date for a while. But that's okay too. Because at the end of the day you need to be able to make yourself happy by yourself before you ever let anyone in to do it with you. And this, this is when you know you're over them.
