I know we all want that group of friends, like the friend groups in high school movies. NO FIGHTS, NO FALLING OUTS,ALWAYS TOGETHER NO MATTER WHAT,HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY ALL THE TIME. Yo that 'ish is trash.
That's just a movie,let me hit you with reality.....
1}THE FRIENDS YOU'VE STARTED WITH AREN'T YOUR FRIENDS WHEN YOU GRADUATE...
I have seen and heard about this from many people,I also experience some of these myself, but friends come and go. Yes we hear that all the time, but do we actually realize the meaning behind the saying?
You might start off with this one friend as a junior, eventually you met other people and made your own friend group and you both do not have the same classes together and the other person made their own friend group and you both forgot each other. Taking different classes mean that you guys don't see each other very often and most times you may not even talk to the person on social media. This is how some friendships die away.
2}RELATIONSHIP BEFORE FRIENDSHIPS.....
You may not experience it now but you will encounter a friend and that friend will find someone awesome and get together with that person, spend their time with that person, takes very very long to reply your text messages, always on a 24/7 call with their partner and refuse to go out with friends. This friend annoys the crap out of you.Driving you insane,makes you feel sick.
I never said that you cant be in love,what i am trying to say is while you are in love please don't forget the people outside your relationship who loves and cares for you. Anytime this person breaks your heart your friends got your back,like they are here for you no matter what,don't neglect them.
If you are that friend who forgot about their friends and studying your partner more than anything, go and apologize to all your friends because you have no idea how you make them feel, also how bad you make yourself look by treating them like this,people are going to notice your awful traits and won't want to be your friend at all.
If you're that friend who is being ignored, don't feel bad instead cut off this person completely, yes that also means block and delete them out of your life. You don't got time for negative people who produce negative energy around you. You need people who are gonna make you happy, motivate you, stick with you in the good and bad times and one is trustworthy and honest. The smaller the circle the better the outcome.
3]STABBING YOU IN THE BACK...
We are gonna have that friend who was good in the beginning and then they started liming with toxic people,their attitude has changed,they're very rude, disrespectful,only come to you when they they want something, talking crap about you, telling everybody your business.
GIRLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL please do not be friends with this person. They're using you because you are too nice to them. Stop being nice and start being a savage. Show them that you are not letting them take advantage of you and that you don't need them. YES BLOCK AND DELETE THEM AS WELL!. Walk away,look the next direction ,ignore them,don't tell nobody your business and don't ever talk to this person again. This person is dumb, they are probably raided by area 51, I don't care whatever the case may be LOCK THIS PERSON OFF FOR LIFE!
you will thank me later:)
*tell me in the comments below any other topics you want me to write about, I'll love to hear it!
love you,be safe <3
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Things I wish I knew before highschool...
Genç Kurgu"Advice you should know before highschool,I worked really hard on this one,hope you love it as much as I do❤...."
