Lasting Beautifully in The End

Goodbyes

Parting is probably the hardest thing about life, for me, and maybe for you too.

No matter how old you are (that you are old enough to read this text), you might have experienced parting from your family, friends, colleague, significant other, or even pets.

Let's face it, none of us ever liked the word 'goodbye' when it comes to the people we shared our memories and feelings with. However, I do realise that the odd of us parting is probably greater than the odd of us meeting.

That being said, with every meeting comes side by side with parting.

But if we never part at all, do our memories and our thoughts still considered as significant? Will we appreciate them than when we will part and might forget?

I don't think so.

Some people in our life meant to leave, and of course some people are meant to stay; although maybe not forever. And without realising it, we are doing it ourselves every other time. Just like those people, we also leave and also stay.

So, it doesn't seems right to blame people for leaving us. Just like how we won't like being forced doing something we aren't meant to do, other people would also want to leave the party when they need or want to.

I know, that doesn't made up the fact that goodbyes still hurt like hell. We get attached, and that's totally normal.

But as a reminder for myself and for you, that vacant space that was left by someone that meant a lot to us is able and will be replaced by someone or something else over time. It might not be perfect, but It's still someone who is willing to be a part of your life. So don't be afraid, my little friend, to let time heals your scars :)

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