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love not war

Why do some people when they say" I wont let anyone take you away from me."

Get angry when someone is actually  trying to take their girl or man and then that someone succeeds.

Then they start a whole flame war with that person who took whomever they were dating from them.

Like they should mainly be mad at whomever they were dating because that was their own personal choice to leave them for someone else.

I mean if someone really leaves you for someone else like that they weren't really yours to begin with they were more at the moment then Permanent.

In my opinion it would be best to move on because most people know that sometimes holding onto things hurts more then to letting go, kind of like a game of tug of war with a very rough feeling rope.

I know it's easier said then done but I would know especially it can be so hard to let go of something. You think about all the memories the good ones that you've had with that person and then you try to imagine life without them and it just seems so different.

For people who are like me we dont like change or mostly sudden changes,  it's hard to get use too amd sometimes very well take a while to get use too.

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If you kinda think about it every bad thing you've been through or have experienced it builds on you either in a good or bad way.

But somewhere along the line we have a changing point no matter what most people change a lot and other not so much but we all do.

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Also another thing to I dont fully get is that when people who are so toxic and some people who are friends with them say that ," oh I understand why he's like this."

For anyone who reads this listen up their is no excuse for a way a person acts or treats you or other people. Especially for people who've said I've been through some bad things.

Theirs a differences when your going through your moments and are upset cause something happened to you compared to when your constant acting like your a special snow flake so it's okay to mistreat people and be a jerk to constantly for no reason and then you say as an excuse oh sorry I've had a rough life.

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I've had a rough life to and most people in this world have experienced at least 1 or more rough times and you dont see some of those people going around being toxic.

For me I treat everyone equally and with kindness. Mostly no one in my eyes  deserves to be tossed around or feel the same as I did. I'm here for everyone no matter how broken they feel and I dont want anyone to ever feel what I feel constantly not even in the slightest of ways.I wanna make sure people know their not alone in this world no matter what.

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Theirs never an excuse to be a jerk "cause you have anger issues" or "have gone through rough times". I think mostly everyone is amazing and deserves better then to be mistreated by a friend or significant other or family.