You Ever Wonder What's Right And What's Wrong In A Mother's Love?
Well then, this rant is for you.
工• Mother's tend to do things out of love, but it could be wrong. Hear me out, I know what your thinking, " That's Absurd! Mother's ALWAYS Do The Right Thing! " Ehh, not necessarily. They could do things that many people would see as wrong. Of course, I'm not saying to make your mother into the ideal image of a mother in society's eyes, rather I'm hinting towards the problem of sexual abuse without acknowledgement. Biting, Probably Neck Kissing, and Lip Kissing are 3 things that seem like they go in between. Motherly Love has no limits, of course everybody knows this. But that's where the problem is. It can be sexual assault and considered love. But of course, not many people know it. And in all honesty, when children are raised and grow up that way, with all that touching in some ' private ' places, they become accustomed to it from their mother and think it's normal. But it's not. It's like saying, " My dad touches me but that's fine because it's family tradition. " I know, I know, it sounds odd. But listen, some children might feel uncomfortable once they grow and learn about sex. And that's normal. Children can move on from things like that, and it's best if they do in all honesty. But of course, relationship wise, do whatever you'd like. Mama will be there to support you.
• Mother's Sometimes take their children out of the problems before it even starts. Come on, you have to agree. Mother's with their first child treat them like they're fragile and will break at ANY touch of cold air, hard food, pools, oceans, you name it. Mother's are even afraid to send their children to school. But DON'T get accustomed to it Mother's. Your child needs to learn how the outside world works because when they grow up, what are they gonna do? Homeschooling is an option, but get them out there, teach them how to socialize. Phones are a good way to start. If your child has no connection with the real world, get them started on the internet. Or in reality if you'd like, it's more preferable face to face rather than screen to screen. Your child needs to learn about the ups and downs of love, not the lazy and chill moments of life. They need to get out there, learn, grow, and connect. Socializing is good and if you did it at one point, then let your child do it.
• Breakups between relation ships are normal, but don't Over support. Mother's. Too often. Oh, too often. I've seen mother's who take care of their children TOO MUCH after a break up. Don't. Relationships. are like friends ships, just with benefits. When it's over, it's over. I'm not saying cut of all support and treat them like a man, I'm saying treat them well, but don't sugarcoat everything you say or do. They need to learn how to get over it. Now of course don't Over do it. Don't do it so that your child moves from one man to the next. That word is inappropriate but I think we all know what I'm hinting at. Just don't let your kids diet get out of hand because of sadness, don't let their social skills decrease because of sadness, and don't let their self esteem lower because of sadness. Kids, it's ok to be in breakups. Just learn that you both have to move on and find another that you love. Then, you'll get over it with time.
• Drugs, Alcohol, Rape, Criminal Records, and Charges don't seem like characteristics or acts that a mother would do, because they're not. I'm not saying kick your baby out of your womb and bring them to another woman to let them chill inside of somebody else. I'm saying, don't do drugs. Mental health exists. Don't do alcohol. Again, mental health exists. Don't rape your child, it can cause trauma and it's just so horrible. Yes, girls it can happen to you as well. Try not to have criminal records. Ever heard people say, " Your child's gonna end up just like you? " I'm not sure if it's completely true, but if it is I suggest that you try and correct that behavior before it gets out of hand. Children can be bad, juvenile bad. Yeah, kids out there are capable of going to kid jail. And they won't be so confident when they ' post up '. Oh no, no, no, no, no. It's like adult jail, but with tinier and probably stronger ' thugs ' or ' bit**es '. Don't think there's a difference, because they're both the same. Another thing in mother's, past, present, or future charges. Mom, please try to remove charges and try not to make your child's criminal chance increase. I want the best for you baby and charges with criminal records? Best be getting on your way to see the Guinness World Record's place to get a reward for, " Most Criminal Mother ". Your kids future depends on your past, your present, and your future. Don't be stupid. Don't take away their hope. Give it to them. Step into the light with them. Don't let them go. If you do, they'll be lost. And it won't feel good. Being lost is never a good feeling, so don't make them feel it. Be with them, and don't encourage rough or criminal behaviors.
Well that's all I had. I might update this but for now, that's all the rants I had in mind. Mother's reading this, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEEEEASE take care of your child. DON'T let things get OUT OF HAND. Thank you, goodbye.