Asking help is not that difficult. There are just a few steps you need to remember.
1. Ask yourself if you really need help. If you aren't sure, don't dare to ask.
2. Try to help yourself first. You can surely fix yourself, can't you?
3. Don't ask people who have a hard time themselves. Even though everyone is feeling horrible and nobody wil ever be fine!
4. When you found someone ask how they are doing first.
5. If they aren't fine help them. If they are doing great and start talking about an other subject let them. Understand that everything is more important.
6. When they ask you how you are say: "I'm fine." When they don't ask further questions: stay silent.
7. When they keep on asking tell that you aren't doing great, but will get through it
8. Don't tell to many details or they will feel your pain and end up worried.
9. Never, ever, ever, ever let someone really help you. Remember, they can't, you can't. It's a mess but you don't need help.
Easy, isn't it?
JE LEEST
Diep blauw - Bundel
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