If someone confides in you and tells you that they are part of a system here's so things that you should and shouldn't do:
- you should ask them to explain further if you're unsure of what it means
- you should be polite about it
- you shouldn't say there's something wrong with them!
- you should ask if you're unsure who's fronting (after a while you'll be able to spot people like our friend can with us)
- you should ask about the altars (or parts)
- you shouldn't distance yourself from them just because they're a system!
- you should ask what there preferred pronouns.
And probably most importantly don't name them as a system to people they don't want to know this is showing the system that they can't trust you and NEVER say that you're scared of them this is a sure fire way to make them feel nervous around you and it will definitely make some people very angry (as it did when someone said it to us)
Also we've changed our name.
Sincerely,
~The Quartz System
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SpiritualThis is just for us to keep track of things and for people who know us in real life to know how to address us and what to do.
