Train up a child(book 1)of the children Series

Training up a child 4

         Children are like flowers in a vessel. They need the help to grow and also a lot of care and attention that makes the flowers bloom and shine just like a child that is been cared for. 18 million children around the world don't get the care or food on daily basis so if you have the greatest or even the smallest oppourtunity to care for your child, children in the family or any child at all please do so.
        These are some ways by which we can possibly help, care,train,invest and attend to our children just like the flower at home that will remain fresh and beautiful. They are:::

1)Prayer is the master key,always pray for your.         
    child. No one is perfect but can be a perfect.                                parent with the help of God our Father.

2)Plan for your self and family(financially;at least a steady income for food,shelter and health) before possibly birthing a child.

3)Prepare yourself for the coming and future of the    child i.e checking yourself and doing away with character you won't want the child to have.

4)Be a responsible parent, having a sense of responsibility is very important and shows love towards the children.

5)Let your child trust you to any extent.

6)Always have a positive mind and attitude and always talk positivity to your child's life.

7)Ensure to invest in your child's future so as to enjoy the child when you're old and now dependent.

8)Don't allow the small stubbornness or mischievousness of a child make you abandon/dislike the child. Your child will always be yours and it's normal for every child while growing up. Learn to forgive even God forgives us as many times as possible.

9)Don't  entertain any  unruly behaviour because of the love you have for the child(Correction with the rod sometimes is very important and acceptable to God and man).

10)Be your child's best friend and companion; let your child have a sense of safety and belonging with you.