In my experience I would rather someone take a knife a stab me in the back a thousand times, then hear them talk trash about me, you could kick ,punch and throw me against a wall as many times as you want , it would
hurt, infact you would have left me with bruises that would take weeks to heal but the pain is only temporary and in a couple of weeks you would be good as new, A bruise you give someone will be gone in time but what you say about someone will affect then in the long runIf you were to stand there and shout things at me like "your worthless", "no one loves you", "do us a favor and kill yourself", " your a slut", "your a whore", "your disgusting", "your fat". That would probably kill me, they may seem like their just words but there not. These words come with a dagger attached at the end, aiming for the heart, these words are what Ill carrying with me in my heart, and these words are what Ill live my life with, Ill always think that no one can love me or that the world would be a better place without me, all because of what someone said.
You see bruises may hurt but they heal in time ,but when you verbally abuse someone that bruises their heart ,and that cant be healed with time ,no matter how long you wait. but it can be healed ,and that is through Self Love.
Self Love is loving your self ,self love is also accepting who you are, self love is knowing that you are worth more then what someone else says ,but self love is also hard for people to find, thats why most people try to find love ,someone that can love them for who they are because they can't do it themselves, but most fail because most people cant accept the fact that they are beautiful ,they can't accept the fact that someone loves them. because drilled in to their head is they dont deserve to be love
Everyone deserves to be loved, but you can't love someone if you can't love yourself. So start by standing infront of a mirror and point out everything that you love about yourself ,and say it out loud, for example if you love your eyes then say I love my eyes aloud even if you dont actually believe it and your not aloud to say one negative thing, do this everyday untill you believe what your saying ,or untill you dont have a single negative thought about yourself.
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