All Wonderful Moments

3. When Arnav Asks Khushi About 'Farak'

"Khushi meri sagai ho ya na ho, kal ho ya ek saal baad ho, tumhe usse kya farak padta hai?" (S4, E10)  

"Khushi, whether I get engaged or not, whether it's tomorrow or the next year, how does it matter to you?"

The first thing that Khushi replies if, "Why should it matter to me if it's your engagement?"

It's not a no. It's a question she asks him in turn. What does he expect? Why is he asking her this? Why... when it's too late? And she quickly covers it up with "No, it makes no difference."

It's a lie. The minute she looks at him she knows he knows it's a lie. Big props to the background scorers. We know the question hits Khushi hard because it's the question she has been avoiding all along. We know that even though Arnav knows it's a terribly hidden lie, he cannot help being hurt - a big credit to the soft, painful background score apart from the fantastic actors.

And when Khushi justifies her actions with scattered sentences and tears stinging her eyes, Arnav knows the truth. She knows the truth. And they both wait for the other to acknowledge it. And they both know neither can do so.

The most beautiful, painful and almost tragic part of this scene is that they're both completely aware and struggling with the weight of their denial. His desperation, perhaps, is a mirror image to Khushi's desperation when she wanted to know why he nearly kissed her on Diwali. But his desperation is also triggered by the fact that she is engaged to another man.

One might also wonder that once she can validate her emotions, perhaps break her loveless engagement (which he correctly assumes is forced), then he might get the strength to break his? One might also wonder that Khushi, at this point, has lost all hope for whatever it was between them - yet at his prodding she can only hope if he can ever speak up his mind. And his inability to do so pushes him farther away from her.

One of the loveliest things about Arnav and Khushi is that they can be interpreted a thousand ways. In one way Arnav's fury post that scene does not really come from him believing that he does not matter, but rather on her denial. And he's clearly not thinking clearly. Not ever since he learned her engagement. And Khushi, on the other hand, seems to have accepted her gloomy future, and seems to be sinking onto the thorn she has held onto.

If you see one of the promo posters, the creatives modified it to Khushi holding a thorned rose that injures her hand (so it's bleeding) but her gaze is transfixed to the man behind her who's staring at her too.

I think that is Arnav and Khushi's journey. Poetic tragedy.

A story you're almost afraid will not have a happy ending. A story where everything wrong happens. So it's only a bigger pay off that they do end up together, in their happily ever after.

And honestly, Khushi's refusal to accept her feelings post their marital status kind of prevents Khushi from seeming immoral or as the 'third' woman in Lavanya's life. Also - I love Anjali at this time who is really the only person constantly worried about Khushi's lack of happiness for her impending wedding. Not even Lavanya senses Khushi's despair.

*I always, always tear up at this scene.*