Our minds and mouths should be a home of comfort to any individual that comes in contact with us. Comments have always been used by many fellows in casual manners without knowing the power they contain when used appropriately. To express in words or writing, as observed or noticed is a lucid approach, or definition of comment.
My experience on social media and real life has broadened my knowledge and understanding of the power behind comments. When guys comment on a girls photo or appearance on social media or real life, she tells them, "thank you". They in turn, would be on top of the moon, feeling invisible, notwithstanding the fact that "thank you" is just a regular answer she would give to anyone who comments on her photo or appearance later on. It also applies to females too, who try to impress guys with comments that they feel are the best and end up getting the same feedback (thank you), which of course does not make them different from all other persons who commented. One thing these people do not know is that the persons they engage in conversation, may either be a cripple, an illiterate or a novice. Even if she is your wife or girlfriend, when your comment is not from deep down mental thinking and right use of words, i stake on it, she will not hesitate to rain down, "thank you". But if the words that comes out of your mouth contains an ingredient of silver bullet, she won't hesitate to look at you more than twice like you're wearing an expensive dress, wants to chat with you or talk to you, have sex with you, wants to come close to you and even wants to understand the meaning of your words.
Furthermore, i am not saying that ''thank you'' is a bad word, but it should be the last word that would ever come out of their mouth because you have rendered him or her speechless based on curiosity and laughter. From my personal experience, most of the genders that i give comments to, end up saying nothing or ''laugh'' (feedback) in return after being curious.
The ingredients of comment should be curiosity, uncommon comprehensive and comprehensible words. He or she will never forget you for a life time if your words travel with these instrument. This guide is recommended to both males and females, because we need to understand that coitus is not the only way to keep our relationship strong and lasting, but also the use of good communication skills and creativity when we pass comments on our partners.
HOW DO I GET THE WORDS TO USE
The words are easy to get, but its how to use them that matters a lot. For me i am a paramedic student in training but i do not use terms in paramedic scope of practice to give comment to anyone except colleagues. For non-medical colleagues of mine, i go straight into what is generally accepted by all "literature'' and ''dictionary". Our profession is a vail to us when it comes to comments with co-workers; because they must surely talk about us. But for non co-workers your words will be uncommon and incomprehensible. However, there are three key things you will need to become successful in delivering a comment. The first is Patience; never be in a rush to send a comment, rather take your time to think the right words to be used at the right time. The second is feedback; always get feedback (be it negative or positive) from the words you have discharged because it took you effort to organize those words. The third is improvement; without feedback improvement is void. Therefore you will not know if you are getting better or worse, which is bad for the mind.
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AdventureI started a jorney of comments by commenting on people's photo and appearance which brought several crazy and romantic responses that landed me on "Six Guides to a Good Comment"...