ISHQ KI BAAZIYAN❣❣❣

KAAND AUR KARAM DONO EK JAISE HAIN!!!

My two cents!!!

Hey babies..i missed you guys so damn much...i needed to talk about something before i begin with the story, okay?

Yoù know i have so many of you beautiful people sharing their life stories with me and me being the person i am...i don't like discussing or posting anything about them publically....so you have full confidentiality with me...i did post a comment once but i kept the identity of the person hidden....whether you were hero in your story or a villian...i try to listen instead of glorify or judge.

But i was asked by someone what do i feel about the mature content shared in sidnaaz stories on wattpad and in general.

So i wanted to start off by saying...me saying i love black doesn't automatically translates into i hate white...log opinion judge aise karte hain jaise khuda hon....agar main ye keh ri hun k i don't like this way or method of doing things....ye mera belief hai....i am not challenging the others jo dusri cheez mein believe karte hain..okay!

See..i myself write smut but if you will read any of it..i refrain from using any word that can be considered as mature in it...heck i haven't been able to use the word breasts until now...when i write the characters making love...i try to focus on the beauty of emotions rather than the flesh and body parts...now...i am not saying i do this because its the right way...i do this because i am not comfortable writing a story based on a real not reel couple jinko main actual life setting mein likh rahi hun...jinko hum sath rehte dekh chuke hain...i remember someone saying in the golden temple visit chapter k yaar romance ni dikhaya sahi se....i told them directly k jis chapter mein paramatma pe focus kiya hai mujhe nahi lgta usme main ye kbhi likhungi...toh iske mtlb i think sex is cheap and bhagwan ko manne wale log isey enjoy nahi karenge??Nope...aisa kuch nahi hai.
Aur jo log explicit content likh rahe hain...good for them...its your talent dude..showcase it however you want to.

Usool toh sbke apne apne hote hain...kuch log vegetarians hain par silk bhi pehante hain aur leather bhi...ye personal choice hai...jiska jaisa dil kare wo waise maan skta hai.

Dikkat hai tab jab koi kahe k this is not right and i don't appreciate ppl associating sex with sidnaaz and their memories we have .

Kyunki...i believe lot of people are okay with associating mature content with sidnaaz...but reality is, a lot of them are not.

And i respect their emotions.There is a reason that even after 50 chapters...i still announce that next part is mature and you can skip it if you don't like reading such thing...kyunki not everyone has to like it.

Ek couple hai jo live in mein hai...i have to show them indulging in intimacy...coz that is realistic but me being okay with this doesn't mean you have to be okay.

It doesn't make you gawaar or baba adam ke zamane ka...agar sex se refrain karke aap shareef nahi hue toh sex ke baare mein likhke main bhi modern nahi bn gyi hun...it is also a personal choice...agar sex ke baare mein likhne pe kisi ko slut shame karna galat hai toh nahi pdhne wale ko gawar ya pichda hua bolna bhi galat hai.

You can't judge me for writing smut but i can't judge you for not liking it.

Agar sidnaaz ke traits aapne ekdum alag liye hain jisse ke unko real walon jaisa imagine nahi kiya ja skta toh aap kuch bhi likh skte hain kyunki shayad koi unki actual memories usey associate na kare...shayad...par jab actual incidents mein sex introduce kiya jaye...it can be a bit hard to digest for some people.

But how i see it is...agar sidnaaz ko aap real settings mein dikha rahe hain...bb ya jo hamare saamne hua hai...aur usme aap daal rahe hain sex...i think for some ppl it can get a bit uncomfortable kyunki wo rishta unke liye wahin se shuru hua hai...toh wo shayad bardasht nahi kar pate k wo essence of sidnaaz taint ho jaye...bar bar bolungi...ek point of view bta ri hun..not condemning anyone.