Loneliness is the state of distress or discomfort that results when one perceives a gap between one's desires for social connection and actual experiences of it. Even some people who are surrounded by others throughout the day or are in a long-lasting will still experience a deep and pervasive loneliness. The causes of loneliness are varied. They include social, mental, emotional, and environmental factors.
But the thing that makes me wonder is How can I help those who feel it? What should I do to support them? Or what should I say or Don't say to them? And how can I know how bad their condition is? I know I can just google it all but there something that's been missing and I don't know what it is.
Sometimes they look so fine and happy in front of others but behind them I know they do not feel so well. The worst thing is when they put trust on me and open themself to me by telling me what they have felt and spoke to me about their problems and stories but there is nothing that I can do to help them. My brain became frozen and couldn't think of a way to help them, the only thing that I can do at the moment is only listen to them. I wish I could do more than that.
To those who felt it and have experience in it, can you help me suggest a way on what I can do for people like you? Well who knows that maybe your friends or family are also having the same thoughts like me, so maybe one day it can help us and might be useful for me, you and others.
For those who feel want to talk to someone but don't want to talk to their friends or family but maybe you can freely talk to strangers you can chat with me if you need me. I am always ready to lend you my ear and spend my time with you.
P/s: Sorry for any mistakes, My English is so bad. I'm still learning and trying to improve my skills.
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