Let's talk about those flaws
I have I'm ace not lesbian or more specifically heteromantic asexual,
I wear headphones so i don't hear you yelling at anything that moves.
I have many of the same attributes you do:
I crack my fingers the same way,
I love P!nk,
I have lgbtqa+ friends,
WE have short fuses.
imagine if you will
you're sibling threw the thing you most proud of on the floor, would you be mad. yes
now you can't get mad when i paint something that means the WORLD to me and my 9 year old sister throws it on the floor with a "thats not art"
I have bad eyesight and i'm slow don't get mad when i'm looking for something and taking my time