"When will I assume? "
There are times we like assuming something lalo na when it comes to ourselves. It is because we sometimes felt that certain things are normal behavior since they are what we expect. But for other people who gain experience of failure from it are either more cautious or coward.
Why are they coward? Because they are afraid of another...
Rejection and Failure.
Big word isn't it?
This negative feeling frustrates and we had this uncomfortable feeling that we cannot describe to others. Kaya madalas nasasabihan tayong...
"Ang gulo mo naman!"
"Ewan ko sayo!"
"Bahala ka diyan!"
Well expected na yun, another assuming that is a fact, they don't know na napakaraming bagay na gumugulo sa ating isipan and we dont know how will we arrange it at saan ba mag-uumpisa.
Thats okay though,
because its part of being a human being.
We are in this roller coster of emotions of positiveness and negativeness and building ourselves with success and failures.
Going back to assuming things, when will we assume?
Its really a hard question...
Why? Because we must consider a lot of aspect and it will be depending on the scenario present.
An example is LOVE...
Diverse and Vague right?
Everyone had their attention to the topic concerning to love because everyone had experienced it.
When someone started to talk to you even your stranger to them.
What will you do?
Will you assume that they are interested in you ? Or you will answer because may be they just a friendly gesture?
Its really hard.
Either magiging assumera tayo or we just go with flow. But you know friend, when the scenario happen to our peers we say that they were interested in you...
Since as I mentioned earlier, we usually tell that they are interested to you because that was usually happen. It easy to give a choice but...
What if you were in the person shoes? Will you also assume that he or she was really interested to you? Of course, because we are scaredy kitten and to keep ourselves safe, we chose the safe one and that is to assume that they just needed something, only friendship or maybe just random things and theres no romantic reasoning.
Assuming things will be greatly depends on person experience and themselves.
We cannot tell WHEN, bacause we are unique on are own in different aspect. We will either a risk taker or coward or just the half half."
Decision of assuming things will depends on you...
By: Polo
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"I dont know..." I murmured to myself.
Nilapag ko ang aking phone sa tabi ko and I rolled to the opposide of my bed and stretch my body. I hugged my big blue fluffy pillow and covered my eyes with my right forearm.
"Am I assuming?"
My face is covered with confusion and regrets. My mind is overflowing of thoughts and it is really sucks. It wasn't my cup of tea, this complete new feelings is really bothering the hell out of me.
"Damn it! Damnit!
"Ang bobo ko talaga, bakit ko kasi sinagot yun, its freaking ahhhhhhhh"
Gigil na bulong ko sa sarili.
"I need to calm down and decide later..."
Umupo ako sa kama and I made a long deep breath.
"Inhale, exhale...'
Ikinumpas ko ang aking kamay pababa at pataas sabay sa paghigop at pagbuga ko ng hangin ...
Calming your mind and soul is the best thing I can do. Everything will be alright. After I calm myself I will start to think where this uncertain feelings began...
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Sorry for the grammar, Thank you for reading.
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