What women really want

Nearing 30

Do you ever think that life was much easier when we were kids. We had no expectation, no stress, just lot of fun and play. The smiles , laughter were more genuine. You did not care what direction your life was going in. It was carefree attitude which was so pure, like a true gem. We were honest with ourselves back then. Does it ever occur to you that life is running fast and you are siting in the back seat of the car and has absolutely no control over it.
Nearing to age of 30 is worst phase of your life.
If you are married, your in-laws, relatives will be expecting a baby from you. If you are unmarried people were always be taking about marriage . They will always give you advice to get married before 30 because that is social norm of the society. Apparently after 30 women are too old for men and we will not get good guys, so we should grab them before it's too late. 🙄
Nobody knows what we are going through.
We might want to make a change in our career or we are not happy with the monotony of our life. We don't feel passionate about what we do.

We are too scared to take the risk. We want to make the change for ourselves, but it will disturb or break the chain that the society has bounded us with it. Very less people actually get support from their parents to actually follow their dream.

Nearing 30 and not knowing what you actually want, what to do with your life is frightening,
the pressure of marriage, finding the right partner is alot.

Whenever we open our facebook  or Instagram account there is always some of your friend or colleague getting married,having baby, going abroad for studies or getting their own startup company. Any you are just wondering Am I lagging behind in the race?
What should I do? Should I try my hands at becoming a lawyer or a writer. Do I serve my country or go abroad and earn money. You are confused what to do?

Have major and minor goals in life. Start with a simple goal as learning new language or taking care of your health, like running for 10 minutes everyday. If you are able to meet your small goal everyday, then you can achieve your dream. Even if your not sure where your passion lies, try everything and see what works best for you. Read the books you always wanted to read but never got time for it.
Just travel alone you will learn alot of things.
Start checking out your bucket list.

The mind is the prisoner of thougts. It is always scared to do anything which will make us uncomfortable. Comfort is the most uncomfortable thing in life.

We all have thought about changing our lives, doing what makes us happy, not really caring what society thinks of us.
How many of us take control of our lives and have the strength to do what our heart desires?

Tod do in bandisho ko jinke darr se humne khul kar jeena chod diya hai. Nakli muskan kab tak chehre pe rakhoge, yehi tumhari takdeer na ban jaye. Khud ko khush rakhna seekh lo, baaki sab aapne aap sambhal jayega. Yeh waqt kabhi kisi ek ka nhi hua, tera bhi waqt aayega bas thoda sa intezaar kar sab theek hojayega. Hataashao se nirash na hona , gir ke uthne mein alag hi maza hai. Karna khud par garv tune dard mein bhi dusro ko hasna seekhaya hai(Shayari or Poetry in Hindi)

A/N: If you are going through the same phase please share your thoughts with me.

P.S. Editing in Progress