The Rule of Human Brain

Chapter-3 : Why Stare ?

That day when I was passing through the street, there was an accident and the driver of one car was quarreling with the other one. That is not the point. The point is every person in the street was enjoying the scene by staring.

Why stare? What is the reason of it? Do you get any benefit from it? Are you getting any money by watching other person's misery?

We are human beings. Not a single human being is perfect. We enjoy other persons suffering. Indeed, we even start spreading rumors about a very silly thing. This is our problem. We do gaze by knowing that it will ashame the people to whom we are staring.

Another example is, one day I was in a mosque and there was this man with his 2 or 3 year old child. The boy was crying continously and all the people were staring at him. Come on , you need to take your children to the mosque so that they can adopt the habit of going to mosque for praying from the very childhood. There's no harm to that. And this is a child so he will cry. It's his nature. We also cried when we were infants. Don't behave like you weren't a child. Instead, they took it on the wrong side of the tracks and believe me or not, the guy had to leave mosque immediately after the Salah because they were staring continously and the boy was crying too.

You need to see these types of matter in a simpler, more normal way so that our universal brothers doesn't hesitate to go out or do something for which they will be ashamed of. Now don't get me wrong I am not talking about crime but the simple matters. I mean go to USA and see what people are doing. Youtubers are literally making video on the subway train and no one is watching. But here in Bangladesh or in any other country people comes in forward and disturbs the ones that are engaged in doing their own activities. This is very awkward. And you are making the person uncomfortable.

Do your own work. Concentrate on what you are doing. You are literally not getting anything by staring at others. Instead you are wasting your own time. We need to be that person who sees something simply, in a good way; not some pedo who inserts their finger to other people's lives.