It's agony to love someone that don't love you
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Hating on another women's empowerment
ain't gonna get you any closer to yours
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If something is important to someone i love
then it is important to me
and that is called compassion.
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you cannot force anyone
to be or do what you need or want of them
They need to come to that conclusion on their own
And if they don't?
Move on. Let go.
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Though our commonalities no longer align
I don't wish them ill will.
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"Nice guys" also believe
simply performing basic human tasks
and acting like actual human beings
means they deserve recognition for being "nice guys"
let's not get this twisted.
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generational trauma
reflecting on the women that came before me
That carried me within them
And all the strength in my lineage
but of all the bullshit they've been through.
abuse, heartache, disrespect
I want to be the stop to that line
And break the trauma.
Not only healing myself but the women that came before me.
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I think being vulnerable
and telling someone you care about them
is one of the bravest things you can do at any point in your life.
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I don't like this notion that being single equals being damaged.
That there must be something wrong with them.
"My alone feels so good, I'll only have you if you're sweeter than my solitude."
Being single isn't a defect.
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If finding comfortability
in vulnerable expressions
frees others to feel safe in doing the same
I'll keep doing it.
I'm tired of the apathy.
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Just because you love someone
and they don't love you back
doesn't mean it wasn't real for you
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I would never push you into a mold that's not you
I'm going to let you do your thing
I'm just not the kind of girl to demand time
I accept it when it's offered freely
You do what's necessary for you
I won't vie for vacancy
It's not my thing
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I'm not your girl
And never will be
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I trust your intentions aren't to be hurtful
I'm trying
I'm trying to understand
and learn what you want
To keep up and give that to you
I care for you
I want to end this cycle
I want to know what you want
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ED isn't just starving yourself and/or purging.
It's obsessing
over everything
you eat, drink or how often you've worked out
spending years hating your body
Idealizing unobtainable bodies
seeing photos of your thinner self
feeling triggered
immediately into the mode of
"what can I do to get thin again"
creating that vicious cycle
obsessing, self hating, and depression
I'm aware
I have the tools
I can handle this
It's not perfect
Let's do better
