When I die, I want to be cremated. I want my ashes spread in a lake in or near Atlanta, the place of my birth, under a full moon.
Have a small and quiet service there with sunflowers and play I Was Here, by Beyoncé. Family members only. That's it. No other memorial. Shouldn't take more than 5-10 minutes. I've been a loner in life. And that's how I want to go.
Just have a big nice brunch the next day. Don't forget to include some shrimp & grits.