PLZ IF SOMEONE CAN LISTEN TO THIS PLZ TELL ME IF IM WRONG.
My cousin only has a dad and his dad is horrible like HORRIBLE, so over the years as we have grown up, my grandma would help take care of him. But every Christmas he would get more stuff than me and my brother and I would be upset because it just didn’t feel fair that grandma was giving him more than us.
Also on our birthday (we share the same birthday) he would always get more from our grandparents and aunts/uncles. I always felt like none of that was fair.
To go with the fact that his dad is horrible, he still likes his dad because his dad will give him drugs and alcohol.
So now that Christmas is coming up, my grandma spent $75 on me and my brother but then my cousin got at LEAST $200 worth of stuff. Not to add on the fact that my aunt and uncle are getting him a race care game set up and taking him shopping for whatever he wants.
I just feel like this is NOT fair.
Like I know he had a bad dad, but that doesn’t mean my grandma should be spending more on him for Christmas and our birthday. She legit buys him new clothes all the time without it even being Christmas or our birthday.
He is also not good with keeping his electronics safe, so he breaks stuff all the time.
After we got all our gifts the other day, he broke his phone… you know what my grandma did? Bought him an IPHONE! Are you serious???
Am I wrong for feeling like super jealous and upset?