KaelynnJackson
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I need advice, anyone pls.
Well today, my bf slept all fkn day and woke up for 30 mins then went back to sleep. I have been depressed all day and let him get his sleep even though I really needed him up w me. So when he went back to sleep, i tried waking him up twice. Both times, I'm BAWLING my eyes out & he fucking SNAPS. He yells at me. So ofc I caught an attitude bc he knows I suffer depression and he's the only one here that I wanna talk to & spend time with when I'm going through it. So we got to arguing, & when I expressed how he made me feel lonely & how I'm always there for him when he needs me, he told me to STFU bc what I'm saying is stupid. He also claimed he "been up" but was SNORING. What should I do? I love him & he is very sweet 98% of the time. It's just sometimes, he's not there for me mentally. I'm confused. Should I try to talk to him, or just ignore him until he apologizes to me?
PrettyGurlTingzzzz
My personal advice is to leave because u stated your there for him when he needed u and at this moment he isn’t returning that same courtesy while your at your lowest mentally sometimes when a person shows u for who they are the first time believe them. Because sometimes they might pull the same disrespect over and over till u finally had enough and I don’t want that for u. Ignoring what you’re going through and sweeping your feelings under the rug is wrong and your partner shouldn’t do that. You’re in my prayers and have a good night.
PrettyGurlTingzzzz
Hey girl long no hear from this app and here is my piece of advice idk if you’re a religious person but I really recommend giving this to God and Jesus Christ but he knows what’s best for u and his peace is the greatest solution to any problem or mental issues your dealing with such as depression. Ask him to make your path clear, ask him if this man is or isn’t the one for you. Read the bible because it’s state “ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast. It does not dishonor others, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Live does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13 NIV
