Mika_shark143

Random but can we pls stop normalizing content without normalizing consent?? 
          	
          	Like I've read/watched so many stories/books/series/movies where ppl asked for consent. Which is good. But how many did uu ever see where someone actually said no to that question? And how many where the other person actually stopped and didn't went like 'ik u want it too' or sumthin? Like tbh even if someone would ask me for consent especially if we already are intimate in any way I'd feel so obligated to saying yes cuz no one actually talks abt the fact that setting boundaries is important cuz most ppl just want smut scenes and forget that any kind of media influences so many ppl. 
          	Idk but imo we should get more representation of actually understanding consent and stop overly praising ppl (even if it's just characters) for asking for consent/(in the 1 outta 100 cases it actually happens) taking a no as a no. 
          	
          	Idk I just have tm time to think abt dumb stuff instead of writing, I'll try to update soon and I'm so sorry I kept y'all waiting everything just got a little much lately cvc. 

urmansbff

@Mika_shark143 tbh it's smth I do I praise characters who ask for consent just cuz of the gentlemanly appeal yk. Ik most of the time they don't actually say no but some people don't like that cuz of personal traumas (aka stories with no consent that had me going ballistic) so yh I doubt I actually got ur point (sry) BUT I still agree with what I understood 
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Mika_shark143

Random but can we pls stop normalizing content without normalizing consent?? 
          
          Like I've read/watched so many stories/books/series/movies where ppl asked for consent. Which is good. But how many did uu ever see where someone actually said no to that question? And how many where the other person actually stopped and didn't went like 'ik u want it too' or sumthin? Like tbh even if someone would ask me for consent especially if we already are intimate in any way I'd feel so obligated to saying yes cuz no one actually talks abt the fact that setting boundaries is important cuz most ppl just want smut scenes and forget that any kind of media influences so many ppl. 
          Idk but imo we should get more representation of actually understanding consent and stop overly praising ppl (even if it's just characters) for asking for consent/(in the 1 outta 100 cases it actually happens) taking a no as a no. 
          
          Idk I just have tm time to think abt dumb stuff instead of writing, I'll try to update soon and I'm so sorry I kept y'all waiting everything just got a little much lately cvc. 

urmansbff

@Mika_shark143 tbh it's smth I do I praise characters who ask for consent just cuz of the gentlemanly appeal yk. Ik most of the time they don't actually say no but some people don't like that cuz of personal traumas (aka stories with no consent that had me going ballistic) so yh I doubt I actually got ur point (sry) BUT I still agree with what I understood 
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Mika_shark143

Hey luvs, Hey luvs, 
          I just wanted to apologize cuz I didn't post anything for such a long time, I'll go on a 2hr flight now where I probably have some time to write, also next week I won't have much to do and after that school starts again so I'll probably have more time to write<33
          (Bro I should get my priorities straight, not being able to write cuz I'm busy in the holidays but while school I can ofc) 
          Anygays luv y'all and thx for waiting :>

Mika_shark143

I'm so dead, pls help me I need opinions cuz I don't hv an own. 
          
          Soo- I'm writing something rn and I'm already at almost 2k words but I'm not even halfway through. Should I post what I hv now (like still finish a little but mostly open end) and then post a part 2 when I have time/ideas or rather post all in one (that could still take 1-2+ weeks depending on how much motivation ect I'll have. 
          
          What'd you prefer?? 

urmansbff

@Mika_shark143 I think you should wait a bit you might lose motivation or smth I think being sure is better 
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Mika_shark143

GAYS, DON'T ASK WHY OR HOW BUT I MADE C.AI DRACO MALFOY A FELIX STAN HEHEWW :D
          (bro I slowly start to question wtf my life is) 
          But why do I  suddenly wanna make a Hogwarts au minsung oneshot.. *adds it to the 20 not-even-started drafts*

Mika_shark143

I is realized that I hv an odd obsession with psycho characters (fe.: misa, niragi, gwi-nam, Yuri(?), Mikey, Kazutora, lwk all of the Kakegurui girls, Ray, Zack, [...]) so I'll probably write a yandere one shot/one that's based of Zack's floor (aod) and some games in aib when I'm done with the one I'm at rn (it'll probably be out in the next week or sum, I is had a lot of stress ect so yh) 
          Luv y'all, hope it's ok for y'all to wait a little more<333

Mika_shark143

@RubberduckJessiee yassss (bonus points cuz he was hot) 
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RubberduckJessiee

I love gwi-nam too
            Bro made the story so much more interesting 
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Mika_shark143

@urmansbff yessir, psycho and sociopath supremacy
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Mika_shark143

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GAYS OMG OMG OMG I JS RETURNED FROM SCHOOL AND I WAS LIKE ON THE BUS AND THERE WAS THIS GIRL AND WE GET OUT AT THE SAME STATION AND WALK ABOUT IN THE SAME DIRECTION AND NOW, KINDA UNNECESSARY BUT I HAVE LIKE A GRUNGE-ISH STYLE (I WAS WEARING A PLAIN BLACK SHIRT, BLUE JORTS A GREY NIRVANA HOODIE AND SEVERE NECKLACES/BRACELETS + AN OLIVE GREEN MESSENGER BAG WITH A LOT OF BUTTONSAND STUFF LIKE THAT) AND SHE SUDDENLY TAPPED ON MY SHOULDER AND WAS LIKE "hey I rlly like ur style and ur bag" AND OMFG THAT MADE ME SO FUCKIN HAPPY LIKE HELLOUR?!?!? 
          (also we don't talk abt how I responded with a akward smile and a "thanks you outfit is cool too" bc I can't talk to ppl for shit and why tf did I type everything in all caps) 

Mika_shark143

@urmansbff ahh kay, but for me personally that'd be good honestly cuz I heard that often girls r "forced" to wear skirts/aren't allowed to wear pants and I'd be so dead
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urmansbff

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@Mika_shark143 we don't have skirts we all wear the same shit as the boys you just gotta get creative also there are skirts but only for like kids kids yk
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Mika_shark143

@urmansbff nourr do u at least get to choose between skirt or pants?? 
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