XxScarletMaidenxX
Hello Lovelies,
If you live somewhere that celebrates a food based holiday where you gather with all your relatives and you have problematic relatives, please do what you can to protect your peace. Keep in mind "No." is a complete sentence and does not need further elaboration. Anyone who is upset with you for setting a reasonable boundary is angry because they can no longer take advantage of you and you're not being mean.
It's been almost four years since I went no contact with my family and I still get stressed out around the holidays and tense up about potential family interactions that I know are not going to happen as I've not allowed them to have access to me in years.
Stay Safe! Protect your peace. I hope you can find moments of joy.
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XxScarletMaidenxX
@love_life254 ❤️❤️❤️ I'm proud of you and happy for you. Just me and my spouse and all our kitties so it'll be nice and chill.
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love_life254
@XxScarletMaidenxX My peace of mind is my greatest treasure. I've cut off a lot of toxic family members and its like I can breathe again. Being a giver always led to me being taking advantage of but ever since learning to set boundaries its weight being lifted Enjoy your food and company even if its just YOU
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