Something surprised me today. So, eventually, for many people, loving someone makes you entitle to do anything you want. And if the recipient don't want your love? oh no, too bad. You have to. I've given you everything, given up so many things, so you have to love me. If not, you'll be condemned by society. So your choice is: Love me or condemned. Did he give any signal that he likes her that she misunderstood? NO. So why the heck people is hating him when he treats her badly? It is what she has done to herself!