it's so weird. grieving the fangirl i once was, the grown adult i am, and the bisexual woman i continue to be in a country who's president wants to see me & my loved ones suppressed. a lot of grief is happening simultaneously, around me and in me.
my words for you all are the same ones i have for myself: hold your communities tightly. go moment by moment. feel the feelings through. take all the time necessary. boldly act and protect your livelihood. touch grass daily.
and lastly: love, fervently and deeply, no matter the loss that awaits behind the curtain.
xoxo, kay