You are sad when you don't experience and feel what they call "LOVE". But when it's time to experience and feel this called "LOVE" you're afraid to take risk because you always thought that "LOVE" is always about hurting. This thought is wrong. Why don't you just think of the happy memories with the one you LOVE?!You'll see! The more you think of the negative thoughts about LOVE, the more it will disappear and leave you hurting.