@_acubimaya
I understand what you mean, but I would like to clarify an important point that some may misunderstand about the relationship between the roles of top and bottom. Being at the bottom does not necessarily mean shyness, submission, subservience, or permanent weakness. I have read many stories that indicate that being at the bottom does not necessarily mean bending and acting weak or shy. The issue is who bears responsibility for the relationship, such as a halo, or a husband towards his wife, etc. While the wife also has authority and makes decisions, she is supportive and kind to her husband, but also strong, but leaves control in bed to her husband. And just as a husband does not always have to be bold and shy, he is on the contrary shy, kind, cooperative, and good to his wife, but he also has responsibilities as a husband towards his wife, and so on. Some life and family matters between a man's husband and a woman's wife, but this also exists in same-sex couples. + But I kind of understood that both are bottom and top in your story