mari457601
HEY PEEPS!!! idk who's gonna see this, but I'm, um, seeking advice or an opinion from another's pov, because I'm kind of confused and/or worried. For those who have been following up recently, you've seen that I'm in a relationship, and I truly love my bf to death. He would be so sweet and clingy; for instance, my man is a whole foot taller than I am, and he would always like to lie on top of my head, but recently, like a week ago, he stopped doing that. He's been having problems with his dad, and he won't tell me, so I won't make him or force him to tell me if he's not ready. And also, he's literally shrugged me off like today, I was linking arms with him. He just moved his hand away, and he's talking less and less, and I like every time I see him talking to another girl, he's always smiling and play-fighting with them(one of my friends) but with me, he's quiet. I don't know if I have the right to be jealous. I'm a REALLY shy person and sometimes find it hard to talk or look people in the eyes, and I don't know at this point because I want this relationship to really last.
mari457601
@NOODLES_FORLIFE, we've fixed things with each other. I'm so happy (≧▽≦) we both literally can't live without each other . Were trying our best to keep our relationship healthy and for it to last longer(◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。
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AnimeDweeb2020
@mari457601 I'm in the same boat in being shy irl (as well as non-confrontational). I would say you do have a right to be jealous but not to let it consume you or be the main point in your approach (I hope that made sense). I would at least advise you to bring up how he is making you feel and that you feel ignored. Sometimes people can be pretty oblivious on things and stress can also play a part some under intense stress cave in, some regress within etc. Sometimes some things aren't meant to be. People come and go in our lives. Some people are only meant to be temporary in our journey while others more permanent. I'm not the best with advice but I did try my best. I know you said you're shy so it's likely to be difficult to do so but I would say practice in mirror and if you still can't go the old fashion route with pen and paper.
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