okie dokie is this is super random but I wanted to see other ppl’s opinions on it. I realized that although I constantly say “flirty friendships are better than relationships”, I have liked a certain few relationships that I’ve been in. with that being said, I have realized that I want someone that I can flirt with, have fun with, and “talk” with, but I don’t want the commitment of a relationship. I have learned this through trial and error lol. I have major commitment issues as far as relationships go. I’ll be the first to say it. but keep in mind when I say flirt, I don’t mean “u look good today.” While yes I like that I want to FLIRT. I want someone that I can fluster with my dirty comments, but no strings. I need a friends with benefits, but without the actual sex. I just want someone I can kinda come and go from. That’s where the commitment issues come into play lol. I want to have the bit where we can look up at the sky and talk abt life, play around with, make my comments to and abt, but not a relationship where I’m tied down, and definitely not love. thanks for listening to my rant. love y’all
