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"I love you ,but I don't want to be in a long distance relationship."
But it wasn't love.....
Have you ever heard people say the quoted line to you or ever heard a story(of someone) like this ,in which a person just doesn't wanna be in a long distance relationship with their lover...cause it's hard.
And it irks me a lot when they say that it's love..cause it's not ... it's not love if you do not have the committment to keep the relationship going , it's not love if , it's hard to stay loyal to your lover, who lives miles away , it's not love if you don't respect their boundaries or do not wanna understand their situation. If you are not ready to fight for your lover and just wanna give up..then it's not love... love is a very strong emotion and it just doesn't easily fade away,infact it never fades away..does your parents love for you fade away?no right , that's the case for husband and wife as well..if you give up on your relationship,then you never loved them in the first place.
I believe ,long distance relationship is a great way to test your relationship...if the relationship falls apart ,then be happy ,cause you lost someone who never loved you or you let go of someone ,who you never loved and that's good too cause in later stage..both of you might have to suffer... crying , depression ,fights ..... divorce. But , please ,when you give up on your relationship.. don't say that you love them or correct them ,if they gave up ..cause it is not love. THANK YOU
