Musings

They deserve Privacy

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Celebrity.. someone everybody wishes to become cause their life seems so fun , fascinating and beautiful but is it really?
I mean from what I have seen ..it seems like ..
1.They are always surrounded by paparazzi.. desperate to take their interview so they can know what's happening in their life and keep the "thirsty" audience entertained and in the process they(paparazzis) failed or perhaps ignore the conditions of those celebrity.
2.When a celebrity is out with family , friends or lover to spend time with them...they are surrounded by the fans sometimes those fans go far enough to chase them ,like I get it those fans are happy to meet their idols but if you are true fans and appreciate their hard work..please give them privacy...they deserve it.
3. Rumors..their life is filled with rumors ...the reality might be completely different but sometimes people create such assumptions on the basis of those rumors that they end up hurting their feelings (like you don't even know them personally so stop creating assumptions and don't judge them when you don't even know the entire situations.
4. Death threads ,rape threats and hate ...this is what they have to deal...why ..because they have achieved their goal and some jealous people can't deal with it as well as some immature fans of other fandoms go around hating on them when they don't even know the entire situation.
5. Celebrities (especially female idols and teenage celebrities) are sexualised by certain hormonal people.
Recently a dirty picture was edited and posted by a hormonal fan sexualising female K-pop idols ,even in wattpad I have come across certain fan fictions of teenage celebrities ,where people write R rated stuff about them and trust me .. it's disturbing .. nobody would like if a random stranger sexualise them ( so if you are one of those people who wrote those dirty fan fictions..please .. delete them)
Also there have been various cases when celebrities have been sexualised.
6. Allegations..again it's all based on people's assumptions..one day I came across a video ..where people were calling Finn wolfhard rude cause he "ignored them" or something like that..the thing is people don't know what was he dealing with..or maybe he was tired or was facing anxiety yet they will make assumptions whenever they get the chance too ..there are various cases when celebrities are called rude for just "ignoring them"..what if they were tired , facing anxiety , dealing with a heart break?..ever thought about that?..no?..then start thinking about it you don't even know what they are going through..please understand them..at least try.
7. When they start dating someone..their partner has to face criticism (especially when a female dates a male celebrity)..you(as a fan) have no right to control what they should do and who they should date ...if you are a true fan ,you should be happy with whoever they choose to date ...their happiness should matter to you..I have seen some immature fans write hurtful comments to females just because they are dating their favourite male idols..and this makes me so angry ...those idiots call those females ugly(you see the misogyny) ..first of all .."no one is ugly or pretty ..we are just born in a judgemental society "(quoted by a celebrity),you have no right to call someone ugly ..plus physical features does not matter.. it's on the inside that matters , also if it does ..then remember one thing ,"beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder" ,if you are a true fan,then no matter what you should be happy for them(guess you are not ,cause I see people hating on the partners) this is the reason why certain celebrities keep their love life private cause that don't want their partners to face hate...also in the process of hating on their partners..you are breaking your favourite celebrities heart as well. So be mature and show them love..if you don't like the partners ,it's alright, but at least don't write something bad.
8."Fans "think they own their favourite celebrities cause they give them views ...honey ..their job is to just entertain you guys ...this doesn't mean that you have the right to control them, you guys get angry just when your parents try to control your life ,imagine how they might feel and the sad thing is they can't even stand up for themselves cause their life is controlled by managers ,who will probably not allow them to say something cause it's bad for their reputation.
9. They are not able to spend much time with their families cause they have a job( that is to entertain you)..so an advice ..if you see them hanging out with their people..please give them privacy .
(If you made it to the end ..then you are amazing.)
*Note -by "you guys" and "fans"...I was just talking about the toxic fans and not other(normal) fans. This whole debate is about toxic fans.*
Conclusion: please give them privacy and support their decisions ..they deserve it..this is the gift we can give them as fans.