So uh... never got around to updating this. The two other chapters in this were about how I was feeling towards my dad and shit. How he didn't "care" about me anymore(or at least that's how it felt). But as it turns out for those past two years he was barely even home.
So this is gonna need a whole ass explanation,
So for two years I had thought that my father didn't care about me anymore, he wouldn't get me to visit, wouldn't make time to call/calls didn't go through, didn't care how I was doing school wise, the whole shabang(is that's even the right word lol)! But about halfway in 2020 we had learned, after a series of hateful texts who we thought were my dads previous ex, that for the past two years my dad was barley even home due to work! Like ok, so for my whole life my dad had been a truck driver, but for the past 2 years he had switched to driving for construction. Which we didn't know about. And through this we had learned that my dads phone had been put under a "child lock" of sorts, he was born in the 70's I believe(hey it's hard to remember shit ok) so smartphones are still complicated at times.
This child lock thing has the abilities to block the user from calling certain numbers, like if it was a kids phone the parent could say block the numbers for services like police and shit so they couldn't cause trouble. So in my dads phone my number along with my moms had been put under that block list. He could try calling but once one of us picked up it would immediately end. This would then prompt us to text him saying calls didn't work.
So after we found that out he had also found out that my current step mom(who now isn't due to this shit) had set it up. She had blocked our numbers from my dad, and oh the texts we would send to him afterwards? Well turns out she had it set up to where if he got texts from certain numbers it would go to another phone! And whose phone you may ask?
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THEY WENT TO HER FUCKING BOYFRIEND!!!!! YES YOUR HEARD ME RIGHT! THIS BITCH, ALONG WITH BEING MARRIED TO MY DAD ALSO HAD A BOYFRIEND AT THE SAME TIME!!!!
This bitch was taking my dads money and going on expensive vacations with this dude!
Also with me "texting" my dad toes hateful messages cause I thought he didn't want me anymore, they went to this person! I was sending personal information to a complete stranger! Some rando man! My dad did NOT SEE THE MESSAGES! (which now I'm happy about)
So long story short, I HAD A GODDAMN EVIL STEPMOM! USING MY DAD, HAVING A BOYFRIEND BEHIND HIS BACK, AND PUTTING A RIFT BETWEEN ME AND MY DAD!!!!
My Dad divorced that bitch, which really upset him cause he really did love her, he loved my mom along with his wife before her and after her but he really loved this one only to be stabbed in the back by her!
So me and my dad are back on speaking terms! It's a bit hard for me at times cause I'm not used to it after two whole years but it's getting better!!!!!
