Gender/Sexuality

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• Kageyama is the only one out of the Trio who is cis-gender. Born male and is completely comfortable presenting as such.

• Kunimi never had the certainty that Kags did.
• Began questioning gender around the age of 12 (just before/first year middle school)
• Told Kags and Kindaichi after dating for 3 months
• Kags and Kindaichi were extremely supportive and helped Kunimi find which pronouns fit
• He/Him wasnt right all the time
• They were really scared when telling Kags and Kindaichi
• It was pretty much the day after coming out that the pronouns were sorted
• GenderFluid was what they landed on, fluctuates from day to day.
• Kags and Kindaichi ask every morning what Kunimi is feeling that day so they don't get pronouns wrong and hurt Kunimi
• Kags and Kindaichi were extremely supportive of Kunimi the whole time and continue to be when dysphoria happens {One shot for Dysphoria will be in a later chapter}

• Kindaichi also struggled with Gender
• Started questioning around the beginning of the second year of middle school.
• It was much easier to find the proper pronouns than Kunimi
• Uses They/Them pronouns, Non-Binary
• Wasn't as scared when coming out to Kags and Kunimi because they knew that both would be fine with it
• Still got very nervous though and broke down.

~Now onto Sexuality~

• Kageyama started questioning his sexuality when he first met Kunimi and Kindaichi
• About 9/10 at the time
• Originally thought he was gay but he'd only ever liked those two
• When Kunimi and Kindaichi came out about their gender, Kags questioned again
• Panromantic and Asexual
• He's not repulsed by sex but he doesn't see or feel the need for it, would if partner really wanted it but doesn't see appeal

• Kunimi doesn't like labeling themself
• Just likes Kags and Kindaichi
• Never liked anyone before them
• Also Asexual
• Is however repulsed by the idea, mostly stemmed from dysphoria
• Has told Kags and Kindaichi that maybe their repulsion towards the idea of sex would mellow as their Dysphoria lessens
• Has apologized profusely for this
• Kags and Kindaichi don't care and just want them to be happy

• Kindaichi also thought they were gay
• Same thing as Kags, questioned their sexuality after Kunimi came out
• Omniromantic and Omnisexual
• Kageyama and Kunimi constantly ask them if their happy with them as they aren't into the sexual side of relationships
• Constantly assuring them that their fine with it and wouldn't change them for the world

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Okay so, I actually have a few one shot ideas for these specific head cannons, such as Kunimi coming out to Kags and Kindaichi, Kindaichi coming out to Kags and Kunimi, Kunimi coming out at KitaDaii, Kindaichi coming out at KitaDaii, getting ready in the morning when Kags asks Kunimi what they're feeling that day, Kunimi and Kindaichi coming out when they get to Sejoh and some stuff happening with the team, the first time Karasuno met Kunimi and Kindaichi and some stuff happened, Dysphoria Days...

I think that's it, I'll write a few in this chapter and some in the next, hope you enjoy!

Starting with Kunimi coming out to Kageyama and Kindaichi
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Kunimi PoV~

Oh God I can't do this... They're going to hate me, they'll break up with me I can't I can't I can't

They're going to think I'm weird they're going to call me a freak for not being the gender I was assigned at birth this is going to go horribly

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