Things That Annoy Me

Love

I love love. It just gives me the warm fuzzies whether in the one in love or if I see a lovey dovey couple. And with valintines day being a couple of days ago I think this rant is appropriate.

It isn't love that annoys me; it's the misconceptions.

Everyone loves someone else, it doesn't matter if they're dead or alive. There are three kinds of love: familial, platonic and romantic. For you that don't know what platonic is, it's basically friendships. We all feel at least one type of love. And you wierdos out there THIS DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU GO AROUND HAVING RELATIONSHIPS WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY JUST BECAUSE I SAID IT IS LOVE. No, just no. Romantic love is the relationships one.

I don't care who you love as long as you treat them right. In other words, if you don't treat someone right, you don't love them. Abusive relationships contain no love as one is being abusive so there can't be any love and the other gets abused so much that they start to fall out of love with the abuser. In my oppinion, those who love their abusers are bonkers. Absolutely bonkers. But I can see the reasoning. You still want to believe the person you fell in love with is still there and loves you back.

Now, sexual desires are not love. You can have a perfectly happy romantic relationship without sex. If you think someone does not love you just because they don't want to have sex with you then you're wrong.

Let's all just love!

See ya!