13. Most orgasms aren't earth-shattering and that's ok
The media's overly theatrical portrayal of what it looks like to have an orgasm has created an unrealistic standard for what an orgasm should be. The truth is, orgasms come in all shapes and sizes — and that means intense lip-biting or back-arching doesn't have to be involved.
Many orgasms are short and sweet, while others feel more powerful and profound. Try not to get too fixated on the size of your orgasm. Remember, sex is a journey, not a destination.
