Little conversations

Consequences after compliment or How contemporary society is weak

The most important theme nowadays occurs when you start to grow up and feel that you can't do it. Due to... emotional underdevelopment. Why? Let's observe and find it out.

When did you first time be in love? What a person was with you? Or. Why did you decide she/he deserves to be near? I can guess that that person made a compliment to you... why? It's popular action to express feelings or get the person's feeling back. And such a hook for humans whom be unfamiliar with emotional expressing in certain ways and politeness . So the typical politness can biased on person's mind and angle of view so badly that it gives a birth wrong conclusions. In other words, after compliment they can fall in love despite of that's just compliment or help. Is it weakness?

Like i say always - almost everything has a beggining in childhood. So our that time is the root of the problems present time. Our parent worked and works so much to give us normal and happy childhood. As a result - emotion lack or misunderstanding some emotions and reaction. Maybe our society isn't so weak in technological area or some knoweledge basis but i notice despite of it, we are unable to communicate normally. Teenagers, adults under 30s and kids more active in internet space when the same person in reality has a big amount of problems with people on the streets.

And i guess the main reason is internet of course, but it's only your choice what you prefer. Some introverts are happy to introduce themselves in web area, even if it costs them last piece which connect them to reality and community. 

It's an entirely different matter when we talk about extraverts. Guys, you are great and i am really sorry to you for this century. However you also can find ways how to be easy-going inside or outside web. 

So weigh pros and cons we can figure out that it's always and only your choice who you are. 

Maybe contemporary society with its rules and duties, mainstreams and hobbies, words and sentances force you do what you don't understand fully. However, it's life. The idea what i want to bring here is - normal to think differently, normal to do something wrong, but the communication among people should exist. Otherwise world falls apart and goes to end. 

Thank you my extra extraverted friends and people whom i know. 

What about me? I'm sure that i'm not extra or intro , just someone in the middle. It's useful but not stable. 

My main point in this topic to support people whom makes a compliments (you're great, i'm in your team if i see that's worth it) however always be aware of what you talk and how you impact on others. Sometimes there are additional methods to express your feelings or politness. Don't mislead please. 

Take care of yourself and be sociable when you feel alright.

Alright?