Self harm:
You see it as them hurting themselves too much.
They see it as never hurting enough.
Anorexia:
You see it them just being skin and bones
They see it as a huge number on a scale.
Bulimia:
You see it as too many trips to the bathroom
They see it as "I ate too much."
Suicide:
You see is as unexpected and surprising
They see it as the only option
~NEMO