random [ sometimes angry] ranting time

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I hate it so much when people blame you for stuff that's not even your fault. Like, I despise people who always try and say that anything bad that happens is always everyone else's fault. Oh, you got your phone taken away? Your mom/dad are stupid and have stupid rules and you hate them. Never that you have been neglecting grades or need to clean your room or have been spending too much time on electronics. 
And then there's when people get mad at others for stupid things, like jealousy. People that treat others like trash just because they're jealous are some of the absolute worst people in my opinion. Mainly because you have no idea how that person is actually doing. You have no idea what someone is struggling with. Just because they say they're fine and not struggling doesn't actually mean that they're okay. They might just be trying not to be a burden, so they say nothing.

And I hate is when people make jokes joke about things that shouldn't be joked about. There are things that people shouldn't joke about in general, but then there are things that you have to be very careful about around certain people. Like, people who joke about dying and hurting themselves. You do not joke about that with people you know struggle or have struggled with that. It's not funny. And then that brings me to another thing.

If someone tells you that they've been struggling with things like hurting themselves and stuff, don't call them an idiot. Don't trash talk them and make them feel absolutely horrible about themselves because they're dealing with things they can't really control. I'm not saying tell them that it's okay, but if they decided to confide in you with that stuff, then be gentle with them. Be careful but help them.