My theory is some people only care when something DIRECTLY affects them like if I got hit by a car and it was on the news people would say oh that's sad and keep on going through with their day because it doesn't affect them directly let's say I died from someone speeding and a head on collision some people would be more cautious while driving and share the memo other people would still speed they'd still keep speeding even if there's no need to speed until it is them or their family members who passed all I'm saying is that it shouldn't take for you to experience something to learn lesson and possibly change your behavior if someone burns their hand on a stove you do your best to make sure your don't meaning if it someone does something bad or makes a poor choice and people normally LOVE criticize instead of recognizing in themselves and the traits that they dislike are inside their own self and it distracts from the constant
