This question has millions of answers such as life is to be able to be rich, or to be able to achieve the most, or to have fun and take risks because YOLO, or to find the right person or like others who say it doesn't even matter. However in the end they say it depends from a person to another.
In my opinion it doesn't depend on the person what it really depends on is what stage of life I am in, it depends on who I am and where I am at this stage, on who are the people that surround me, on my mental and physical health. All of these are the meanings of life, words such sad, happy, depressed, excited, YOLO and many other expressions that millions of people have used are nothing but the status of how life makes you feel right now. If it were by these expressions then I would have had a long list of meanings of life.
Therefore, let's not use these expressions anymore to define us...let us not build OUR life on other's expressions of life. Just because your friend has it all doesn't mean you don't or that you should let that effect you negatively, just because everyone is having the time of their lives but your the only one stuck at home or has family problems or is sick or poor doesn't mean they're better in anyway or that your life sucks and just because you still haven't found what you want from life or who you are or that the right person hasn't arrived yet DOES NOT MEAN your life or you are useless. In fact... it doesn't mean anything at all! These things are out of your control and you shouldn't blame yourself or others because of it. Instead...take a moment to yourself close your eyes, take a deep breath and go down your memory lane, maybe your in a bad moment in life remember a good year, month, week, day or even a few seconds when you felt so alive and happy like never before. Can't find it? That's also okay because it will come no matter what and it will come faster with determination, motivation and caring for yourself. Love yourself, give yourself credit every now and then and most importantly don't make your life problems pull or control you to the wrong path.
Try...looking around you may have the best things in life that others with for but you just can't notice it, because we are too busy getting busy with others life.
Today, I learnt that maybe I don't have to overthink everything and maybe I don't always have to be in control of all of my thoughts . I don't have to always worry and be scared. I learnt that not everything that I see bad is really bad and that even if I don't know yet it that it's the best for me. I learnt...that the right way to live isn't to carry all my problems on my shoulder, the right way to live is to walk through my path and mine alone...to be there for myself through thick and thin and never leave my side because in the end of the day I am thankfully still alive and I am not gonna let a few problems break me when I know deep down that I am stronger than that and I will survive. (Insert Gloria Gaynor I will survive song) 😂😂 just kidding maybe not 👀.
I guess what I am trying to say and what I figured out for myself is BE ALIVE AND BE HAPPY
Because... it really isn't the end of the world and sometimes you just need to hear one sentence
so here is it is, the one sentence we all need:
It's okay. It really is. Don't worry all will pass
Anyhow this really made me feel better by writing it down and again this is only my opinion.This was my random thought today hope it makes anyone feel better just how it did with me.
I am writing what I think of and not proof reading so please feel free to tell me if there are any mistakes in spelling.
Also I would love to hear your thoughts
HAVE A GREAT DAY!
Your random thoughterSarella 💙
