Indian Arrange marriage Proposal

Part 3 first impression.. bad impression..

I straight forwardly.. told him( on whatsapp chat).. that.. see.. this is my biodata.. if you like me.. and vice versa.. we can proceed.., i again started conversation by continuing the previous talk.. again i told him to ask whatever he wants to. He said... Where do you live?? I said in village with my parents.. he asked about my siblings.. etc.. what i didn't like was.. he kept asking me about my details but didn't show generosity to ask me that I too can ask whatever i have to ask to him.. i wanted to ask him many things but i was waiting for him to tell me that what do you want from your future husband.. or what are your requirements in a guy which you can't comprise with. But he just kept asking me about my details ☹️😕. The other thing i didn't like was he was taking time in answering my messages.. ( it was about our future.. about our marriage.. it was important.. can't he Spare some time to chat with me..? 😕. His this behaviour was making me feel confused.. i thought he might be not interested in me.. he might not like me but couldn't say no because it would be disrespectful to say "No " in this way..may be he is just chatting with me to please his parents.. as because he can't say direct " No".
The other thing came in my mind was.. about his manners..( i like boys who are manner full.. i myself is very manner full girl.. i always take care of little things which can hurt people.. ( I'm kinda good girl 😊)) i thought if he is busy in some work.. he should tell me.. like.." I'm sorry for delayed replies.. I'm busy in some work which is necessary.. or can we talk later ? "... But no!! He was just coming online.. offline.. online.. offline.. 😕. The other thing which was participation in increasing more misunderstanding was obviously " chat"... (You might be thinking how??? Ofcourse.. messages can create problems many times.. you can't understand the person properly by talking to him through messages.. conversation on call is definitely better than messages... But I couldn't talk on call with him because.. i was in wedding.. people were staring at me.. because I was standing at charging point and texting someone.. you guys might thinking that can't i go out of the wedding place and talk to him on call?? Well.. there were two reasons.. first is.. my phone yet didn't have enough charging.. other reason was.. I was in village.. where people are not educated much.. their thinking is different than us.. ( i won't offence them by saying their mentality as cheap.. because.. yes.. we don't like it the way they interfere in our personal matter.. the way they judge people.. the way they say mean words to anyone to their face.. the way they gossip for other.. and many things.. but.. it's their thinking which they have got from their elders.. and many factors are contributing to their thinking.. I'm not here to offence them.. but it'd just I'm trying to explain my condition.. how things will affect me.. how i will go through this journey of my arrange marriage.. everything has it's own pros and cons.
Life is like this only.. we have to go through this at any way..)... So i can't just go out and talk to him on call.. i can talk to someone on call by just staying at wedding place only.. but the problem was.. "boy".. he was guy i had to talk with.. if it were a girl.. or some relative.. i can talk.. but it was a guy.. that was a problem 😂. ( You can't talk to a guy.. in places like that.. if you do so..they will stamp you as bad girl.. character less girl.. i personally didn't minded if people of that place judge me.. but the thing was.. it was my friend's place.. i was her best friend who came to attend her wedding.. if they feel like I'm bad girl.. they will make talk like.." look this is what type of friends she has.. " plus my friend's parents were known to me.. so i can't do any misbehave ( according to their thinking).